The irreversable effects of picking a quarrel with your spouse.

Hey please hide my identity;…My wife and I boarded a bus to Kampala for a business trip. We were both seated at the back seat talking and laughing over random topics. We loved to gossip a lot. It had become so used to us.

And because we were so used to each other, we playfully teased each other with insults we didn’t mean. My wife said something that annoyed me. But because we were both on the bus, I could not react. I called her an ugly woman so as to get back at her. I told her she looked like a grandmother.

“Don’t even talk to me till we come down from this bus,” I spoke with all seriousness. “Yes and you too. Don’t talk to me.” She retorted. She knew I was angry, and she was also angry at me too for taking a mere joke seriously. We stopped talking and simply sat like strangers in the bus. When we got to some bust stage, the bus stopped and this very handsome-looking guy entered the bus and sat right beside my wife I immediately started becoming uncomfortable.

I noticed he kept taking frequent glances at my wife. She noticed it and tried to hold my hands, but I pulled my hands away from her angrily and turned towards the other side without saying a word”Hello beautiful.” The young handsome guy grinned at her. His smiles were so magnetic. When I turned and saw his set of white teeth and pink lips, I feared for myself.

My wife didn’t reply to him. She kept her head face front and pretended not to hear anything.”Where could a beautiful woman like you be going to? Really if I had a car I wouldn’t let you take a bus .” As if that was not enough, he softly whispered into my wife’s ear and the next thing my wife burst out in a burst of wild laughter, the laughter I had not seen her laugh before.

Some of the passengers had to even turn to look at her. Then the guy went on. “Are you married? I noticed the ring on your hand .” “Yes dear, I am married.” My wife replied. “But don’t worry, I am currently having issues with my husband. He said I am ugly. This morning he told me that I look like a grandmother. He insulted me.”He must be crazy. Who insults a beautiful woman like you? You are pretty. Don’t mind him. I think he is blind. Some men these days don’t appreciate their wives.” I turned and looked at the man.

I felt like removing three teeth from the man’s mouth with just one punch. But I remembered the fight with my wife and just kept quiet.”Yes, I am not minding him. At least someone has told me I am beautiful and wherever he is, I just hope he is hearing now.” And then the young man laughed and said, “You have a good sense of humor. I will love to have your number. We can be great friends.”That was where I did not hold it any longer, I simply held my wife by her shoulders and pulled her close to me. I landed one original kiss on her lips and she started laughing.

The guy realized that I was her husband and suddenly became cold. He told the conductor he had reached his destination and wanted to get off. I believe he felt so embarrassed. While the bus drove, my wife asked me. “Michael, you said you won’t talk to me. Why are you holding me and kissing me in public?” “Ah! I had to identify and protect my property. All these fine boys of nowadays.

They have no respect for people’s wives again.” My wife laughed and rested her head on my shoulders. This is exactly what happens when you quarrel with your spouse. The devil steps in and takes advantage of one partner just to destroy your relationship. Do you think if Adam and Eve were together in the garden, the snake would have still come? The snake waited patiently for them until they were both apart before he chose one partner and struck.

Hold on to your wife like an egg. Make peace with her. Show the devil that he can’t have his way in your relationship or marriage. Do not give chance to the devil to strike!.

Have you ever experienced such especially when you are not on good terms with your partner?